Thursday, May 11, 2023

Why Didn't Kaitlan Collins Bully the Bully?

CNN's Kaitlan Collins, "toe to toe" with the orange man, should have punched him in the nose. Articulate, polite, she was no match for a guy whose brand is not playing fair. When he doesn't play fair, you don't play fair.  When he interrupted her, she talked through him--but politely. Poised. Like a reasonable person. He yelled through much of what she said.

She allowed him to be himself. That was fatal.

This cheap bully, this gangster, knows no boundaries, has no morals, no interest in anyone or anything other than himself. Obvious as this is to half the country, it's anything but to the other half. 

Collins did nothing to change the hearts and minds of those who love the guy.

She would have had to bully him. For example, physically leaned forward in his face. Gotten a look on her own like he was a naughty little boy, she was the teacher, and she was going to wag her finger and say, "Stop lying, kid!" Instead, her face remained neutral, polite. Anything but aggressive.

This did not make a good impression with the crowd who loves him. He called her a "nasty person." Got away with that.

Remember how, during the 2016 debates, he prowled behind Hillary Clinton like a huge razorback gorilla? She tried to ignore him. She looked uncomfortable. God, how I wish she'd turned, laughed, and said, "Donald, are we having trouble standing still? Do you need to take a break or can you go back to your podium?" Or even: "Donald, get out of my space!"

That would have been very different from the "basket of deplorables" line that may have sunk her. The former is self-defense. The latter is talking down to half your potential voting bloc.

When the former POTUS acts the way he acted last night, the thing to do is either schoolmarm him into the ground or laugh at him. Break into his lies with, "Oh, come on! Do you expect me to believe that?"

Very different from saying "Nobody believes that," because he's banking on the folks who do believe. The facts, CNN, are irrelevant. The emotional hold he continues to have, the "I am 100% sure of myself and I know everything you need to know and I will tell you what you need to know and you just listen to me and I love you!" is breathtakingly powerful. You can't crack that with his loss in the E. Jean Carroll case or any other potential legal loss. He wants everyone to know he can grab any part of any woman he wants and shoot anyone he wants on Madison Avenue or anywhere else and do it all with impunity.

That is precisely his appeal. CNN, please rise to the occasion and bully him back.  


Wednesday, April 26, 2023

Bud Light's Big Shake-Up

Alissa Heinerscheid--currently on leave as marketing Vice President of Anheuser-Busch--explained in a recent podcast interview, “I had this super clear mandate: We need to evolve and elevate this incredibly iconic brand.” 

I don't know why Bud Light went into decline, but I can make an educated guess about why it formerly sold well: it offered the taste of beer with fewer calories. I assume the current market offers many alternatives to that desired goal. Heinerscheid's explanation (see her comments on the podcast; the Bud Light comments begin at 23:14) is that the brand had been sold on "fratty out of touch humor" and that "if we do not attract young drinkers" the "iconic brand" won't sell; she therefore wanted to sell it on "inclusivity." 

But that's not how things sell, unless "inclusivity" means all things to all peoples--and it doesn't. "Inclusivity" is about as controversial and difficult-to-define a term as "woke." 

A better way might have been to mount a campaign showing young people bonding over Bud Light--then using that to extend bonding in other areas. Instead, we got Dylan Mulvaney, trans influencer, whose "Days of Girlhood" portrayals of "my hiking heels" and of Eloise at the Plaza have nettled a number of viewers from a variety of political persuasions:


Dylan's quite the performer--her dance skills are extraordinary; her fey acting has a certain charm, although I always come away from her posts with the impression that she's deeply unhappy, despite all the money and style and attempts to look like a feminine fashion plate from the 1950s. The campy style itself suggests profound dissatisfaction. I think most trans persons who are happy with their lot want to get on with their lives, not be stared at. I get the need to make a bundle, but goodness, Dylan's made it.

The point is: her unhappiness comes through. In a commercial too. That's a number one reason for the failure of the commercial.

The second: people bond over what they already have in common--not over something making them feel uncertainty or discomfort. Or sometimes hatred.

A successful commercial might have shown young people bonding over the taste of Bud Light. Then, once that bond is secure, they bond over something else. The difficulty: all this must be accomplished in 48 seconds, if the Dylan Mulvaney spot is anything to go by. Silly me, I thought we had an entire 60 seconds!

So how about this: 30 seconds of lip-smacking over Bud light. Then 15 of a trans young man or woman walking in and saying, "Hey! Can I have some!" Then the critical next 3 seconds:

"Sure, Buddy!" says the top banana

"This is my bro, Tom!" says the second banana. Pop of can opening, sip, lip-smack. "He's trans."

"Great!" All three drink.

That might work. But whatever does work will have to start with what people already share--love of Bud Light in this case--not something that makes them feel unsure, or scared, or angry.

Saturday, April 15, 2023

Chicken Innards and Turnip Greens: a Fast, Delicious Stir-Fry

The spectacular weekly market in Chateauroux, France, boasts the freshest of young turnips sprouting vitamin-filled greens, gorgeous artichokes--gorgeous everything--fresh organically-fed chickens, cheeses, breads, croissants .  .  .extraordinary aromas. 

I got a chicken and some turnips I'm planning to make with polenta in a few days, but for lunch today I stir-fried the innards (including the neck) in a tablespoon of olive oil, salt, pepper and garlic powder. A single tip: soak all innards in milk for about half an hour; drain and rinse. This makes them taste better. I threw in the washed, chopped greens after the innards had been frying about a minute:


 I let everything fry, stirring occasionally, for about five minutes:


and then ate:


The chicken juices, salt and pepper gave the greens a great flavor. The neck wasn't edible, but almost everything else was. Simon the cat appreciated licking the remains.


Monday, April 10, 2023

The Tennessee Three: Keep them in the News!

Gloria Johnson, Justin Jones and Justin Pearson, the Tennessee three, who bullhorned their protest against guns, breaking the so-called "decorum" of the legislature, should be getting more coverage and more support.  

They haven't, in the wake of another story: classified documents showing up on social media.

We may not be able to do much about electronic invasions of national security, but we should support these brave three. They risked doing the right thing, preventing children, teachers, ordinary law-abiding citizens from falling victim to violent gun-owners. After the March 27, 2023 mass shooting at The Covenant School in Nashville, in which three nine-year-olds and three adults were killed, Johnson, Jones and Pearson protested, and members of the GOP compared their behavior to the January 6 attack on the capitol. 

Let's compare their behavior to the folks to whom King George the third (underestimating the colonists) thought he could give "a few bloody noses," but who fought bravely and established the United States of America. Support these three in their battle for gun control; they are the underdogs with the just cause, and it is long past time that America had what Europe routinely enjoys: gun control. 

 

P.S. Justin Jones is back in, yay! For some reason they're waiting til Wednesday to bring back Justin Pearson. Why the delay?  

Tuesday, April 4, 2023

A Poem for Our Times

Think acrostically. Happy to give you a hint.

Puzzle Poem: Find the Secret Message

 

Don't worry, he has to die sometime

Unless he's actually the devil

Maybe he is

Probably not, but maybe

 

Titanically narcissistic

Really they broke the mold on this guy

Underminer of the world, that's he!

Metastatically mean

Please, some God or Gods, evaporate him.

 

Saturday, April 1, 2023

My Censored Commentary on a Certain Former President Currently Under Indictment

Curiously, B*logger (as I shall call it) sent a message today indicating that I have crossed some particular boundary of theirs; the verb they used, which begins with "v" is a slightly old-fashioned synonym for "rape." The post was published back in 2017 when James Comey was still the director of the FBI. Punning on his name, I advised readers to do the following:

Make America Read Again
Make America Love Again
Make America Work Again
Make America Help Again
Make America Hope Again
Make America Honorable Again

and in my final lines, which rhymed, but which now won't, I advised readers to re-capture American honor by (here comes the part that now does not rhyme) disposing of a certain former president whose name starts with T. I used a verb beginning with D that rhymes. 

More than ever, I cherish the hope that this unnamed but notorious former POTUS will soon be wearing an orange uniform and spending his days behind bars.


Monday, March 27, 2023

New York, Through a Haze, Darkly

I hadn't set foot in the city since 2017. When did everything start smelling of pot? West 113th Street smells like pot. Simpson Street in the Bronx smells like pot. As does White Plains Road. As does Grand Central. Penn. Broadway. Is there a pot-free street anywhere? The only place I haven't smelled the stuff is inside Town Hall, where I heard a Beethoven Quartet. My friend and I were the youngest people there and we're both sixty-six.

I wouldn't mind people doing it on the weekends, though I'll stick to a glass of red wine myself.

That sickly-sweet, skunky smell is on every block in every neighborhood. 

How do folks function at work?

I walked past Columbus Circle on my way to meet a friend for coffee. Beside the usual group of folks peddling photos and pictures of New York scenes sat a guy with a big sign: NEED WEED?

I don't. I need fresh air. So does New York.

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Soy Sauce Chicken Marinade

I looked through a bunch of recipes before coming up with this--several involve ketchup, which I fear nearly always burns. So here's my version:

Chicken drumsticks--six or seven

About three fourths of a cup of soy sauce. Low sodium is usually better, but don't fret if you don't have it. 

About a half cup of honey (or less)

A few dashes of sesame oil--the dark roasted kind

Crushed garlic (several cloves)

Zucchini or the veggie of your choice 


Mix the honey, the soy sauce, the sesame oil and the crushed garlic in a bowl or freezer bag and add the drumsticks. Put the bag in the fridge for around two hours--you can shake the chicken around once or twice. 


Wash and slice zucchini and briefly stir fry. Put in baking dish and load the chicken on top. 


Bake at about 180 for around forty minutes; turn up heat to 200 toward the end. 


 

Enjoy!

Sunday, March 19, 2023

Anatomy of a Bestseller, with Spoilers: Where the Crawdads Sing

I was in my local bookstore in Northwestern Germany when I saw Der Gesang der Flusskrebses, in other words, The Song of the Crayfish, otherwise known as Where the Crawdads Sing, Delia Owens' 2018 surprise bestseller.What a romantic cover, I thought: a girl in a canoe paddling off into the sunset, surrounded by blurbs like "unforgettable." Snatching a copy off the shelf, I sank into an armchair, only to hear another woman rhapsodize: "It is so wonderful!" she said. "You will love it!" I was set for a love story and predisposed to one in North Carolina, since my father's family hails from there. 

A beautiful, illiterate, exploited underdog with all the odds stacked against her learns to read, becomes a brilliant naturalist, and finds true love after single-handedly fending off a dangerous, vengeful boyfriend. The whole point turns out to be this: she gets away with his murder! That's the surprising twist at the end. 

Because you hate the guy--and since none would believe the "marsh girl's" testimony against that of the handsome football hero--you're glad she did him in. With careful planning, she lures him to his doom, because that's the only way to prevent him from stalking and destroying her. 

It's not enough. I kept reading through the murder trial wondering who could possibly have killed Chase. I was looking forward to methods and motives. How about the man who loves the marsh girl and wants to protect her? But he only finds out after her death that she actually murdered the guy. A quiet survivalist kills her predator, and everyone cheers.

Not to forget structure: my edition is 368 pages long. Smack-dab in the middle, about page 182 and continuing on for five-ish pages we get various crises: the heroine is gulled by the wicked footballer who pretends to love her. Her true love and she are, for reasons not interesting enough to enter, on the outs. A perepeteia: our heroine sees her footballer's parents, suspects she won't be introduced. By page 194, the reader knows she won't and by page 208 she knows how deeply he has betrayed her.  Suspense is sustained by switching timelines every chapter. By the end, you're just dying to know whether our young heroine will convicted for a crime we think she couldn't possibly have committed; all else is whodunit.

 Many a bestseller--and TV movie--has a twist in or near the middle. Go for it, writers of bestsellers.

Maybe the book's success arises from everyone's loneliness; during COVID, we all felt isolation, and the heroine's isolation was complete. A seven-year-old child trading mussels she digs up for food! Abandoned by her mother, her father, her siblings--until one brother finally comes back. It's an old American story: a loner in the wilderness carves out not just survival but prosperity. Then there's suspense: it's "killing me--I hope it will last!" Oscar Wilde said. I wanted to find out who killed Chase, and was mildly disappointed when the marsh girl turned out to be the culprit. Perhaps the point was that she lived by the ways of animals--eat or be eaten--so had no guilt and not much memory of the murder. She wasn't gleeful about it as far as the reader knows; once it was over, she was done with it and happy to move on. She saved a poem she'd written about luring the guy to his death and a necklace she'd given him, but one feels those things were there only so that her husband (and her readers) could finally discover who the murderer was. I wanted the murder to have a meaning, possibly because I just finished Crime and Punishment, in which murder is drenched with meaning after meaning. Comparisons unfair, of course--but it does seem as though murder should leave some footprint, however faint, in the murderer's brain--not remain forgotten.


Sunday, February 19, 2023

Hang on to Your Copies of Roald Dahl and Dr. Seuss


“And then they came for Matilda,” Coleman Hughes tweeted. Random House wants to make Roald Dahl’s books “inclusive” by removing “insensitive” language. Miss Trunchbull no longer has a horsey face, just a face. Augustus Gloop, of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, isn’t enormously fat anymore, just enormous. Is he still a nincompoop? I always loved that word.

“Even things that are true can be proved,” Oscar Wilde remarked, and this rings in my ears as I page through scholarship on white supremacy and racism in children’s classics—usually where there’s no sign of either.

I feel lucky to have most of my Dr. Seuss collection. I never owned McElligot’s Pool, which can still be found on Amazon for nearly $130, but listened to it on YouTube, and wondered if I’d missed a page. Where was the racism?

In this hilariously rhymed tale, a boy fishing in a pond hopes to land a big one. Undaunted by a naysayer telling him he’ll never catch a thing, the child imagines fish from all over the world finding their way into his pool. Like most Seuss characters of all ethnicities his face is a caricature—as are the faces of the Eskimo fish, swimming along in their furred parkas. Apparently the word “eskimo”—not a racial slur but old-fashioned—offends some Inuit people, or Random House was afraid it would do so.

If I Ran the Zoo is frequently held up as an egregious example of racism. A young boy, Gerald McGrew, dreams of going to faraway places to bring home unusual animals for his zoo, and one those places is “the African island of Yerka,” whose inhabitants have dark skin and topknots—and look every bit as ridiculous as the white French chef sporting his silly mustache on a tightrope, and young Gerald McGrew, whose pop-eyed cutely thoughtful or occasionally smug look is typical Seuss.

In fact, Dr. Seuss’s animals, children, and adults all look absurdly curious, maniacally intense, or gleefully smug. He's an equal opportunity satirist. He caricatures fish: they seem to be wearing mascara and bat their eyelashes. He caricatures “a beast called the Grizzly-Ghastly," perhaps a bear, grabbed by that skinny weakling, Sneelock, in a chokehold. Yes, there's a line about Asians “who wear their eyes at a slant” carrying a cageful of exotic animals to the zoo.  Does that signify hatred or--more likely--"Gee, they look different from me." A childlike observation that could lead a mother or a teacher to talk about different ethnicities and different styles in a friendly, non-racist manner. Could lead an Asian mother to remark on his lack of familiarity with ethnicities other than his own. Could lead to many insights--in a conversation. Those things we rarely have.

 Then there’s Philip Nel, who wrote a whole book proving The Cat in the Hat is based on blackfaced minstrel shows. Which proves something bad, he seems to feel.

A February 2019 article, “The Cat is Out of the Bag: Orientalism, Anti-Blackness, and White Supremacy in Dr. Seuss’s Children’s Books,” by Katie Ishizuka and Ramón Stephens, claims that only 2% of Seuss’s characters are not white, that babies show race bias at three to six months, that Dr. Seuss’s World War II anti-Japanese and other caricatures of non-white ethnicities are proof of embedded racism. (Never mind Horton Hears a Who or The Sneetches.) If you really believe all that, there's a great bridge in Brooklyn and it's for sale.

"Inclusive" language means the exclusion of art. Equating grotesquerie and comic caricature with racism is foolish.

 

 

 

 

Monday, February 13, 2023

Florida Flummoxed

Current controversies in Florida—Governor Ron DeSantis’s demolishing of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion in the State—have left most people I know extremely divided. Those in favor and those against.

They leave me with Yeats’s lines from “The Second Coming” ringing in my ears: 

 

The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity.

 

By his definition, I am the best and I am the worst. I’ve always hated DEI in the forms directed by Ibram X. Kendi, Robin DiAngelo, Nikole Hannah-Jones, Ijeoma Oluo, Rennie Edo-Lodge, among others; I’ve always shaken my head at the exclusion of a brilliant scholar like Thomas Sowell from any debates I witness among many liberal news outlets, not to mention Glenn Loury, John McWhorter and Coleman Hughes, to list some of the most vocal. A recent Twitter exchange between Hannah-Jones and Coleman Hughes suggests her complete lack of familiarity with Sowell’s work. 

 

I don’t like “teaching” beginning with the premise “the United States is a system of white supremacy.” I’d be fine with: “Is the United States a system of white supremacy? Why or why not?” I don’t like separating students into groups of “oppressed” and “oppressors,” a practice which has increased racism and a maliciously aggrieved atmosphere in many classrooms. Or insisting that one group must be singled out to atone for presumed historic guilt. These ideologies are, however, frequently taught and funded with taxpayer dollars in the millions, a fact exposed by Christopher Rufo, who obtained documents revealing amounts in Florida universities. Cathy Young’s response, that his interpretation of the significance of these facts is misleading and that governmental interference in what ought to be decided from within the universities themselves is certainly a point to consider. Nobody wants a government telling us what to think. But Rufo’s response is that given the amount of money going into DEI bureaucracies, government is already telling us what to think. I’m not so sure Cathy Young is right—Roger Kimball’s 1990 book, Tenured Radicals, rang true to me, someone who went through graduate school as a part-time student from the early eighties to 1991, when I finally finished my dissertation. I saw changes. I saw truly brilliant scholars fail to be able to talk to any other brilliant scholar not absolutely congruent with their political or theoretical framework. They wouldn't say hello to each other in the hall. I saw a department go into receivership. All that was nothing compared to the post-pandemic, post George Floyd’s murder world.

Roger Kimball made sense. Then he voted for Donald Trump. Like Glenn Loury. And I’m thinking, can’t these smart men see the gangster personality oozing from Trump’s pores? Five minutes of watching Trump speak was enough for me. It’s an enormous mistake to underestimate personality and character.

And then here we are with a bill mislabeled “Don’t say gay”—it says nothing of the kind. Watch enough YouTube videos of mothers saying they don’t like graphic textbooks of descriptions of fisting and you may sympathize. African-American history hasn’t been banned. Exactly what’s been banned is public information, recently exposed by Christopher Rufo—the documents are on the net.

Watching current versions of sex and gender instruction in schools, I wonder if children are left any privacy at all. The barrage of information about sexual techniques seems to me to force children to think about sex in particular ideological ways rather than make their own discoveries. Not to mention the policy of not informing parents about a child’s wish to adopt a new gender.

Book-banning is always bad. There are plenty of bad books out there, but the best way to make them desirable is to ban them. One might say the same for DeSantis’s bill. Except: I’ve seen too many children’s books about what “white people” think or say or do, casting all whites as oppressors and all blacks as oppressed. I wouldn’t want a teacher reading my kid those books. I’ve had plenty of time to observe what schoolchildren under Hitler learned about “the Jew” to see the potential for damage—some of my friends’ mothers remember what they learned in elementary school; now they shrug with disbelief and say, “that’s what the teacher said."

The money going into DEI bureaucracies is a problem. The books being read young children (not to mention the drag queens waltzed in to provide diversity training) are a problem. Is banning these things a problem? If my children were young, I’d be afraid of making undesirable notions more desirable. And I’d home-school.

Saturday, February 4, 2023

Al Sharpton's Dream

I was greatly moved when the Reverend Al Sharpton invoked Martin Luther King in his eulogy for Tyre Nichols: “In the city where the dreamer laid down and shed his blood, you have the unmitigated gall to beat your brother,” Rev. Sharpton said of the police officers involved. “How dare you.”

His point is not just that Martin Luther King was assassinated in Memphis, or that the men who murdered Nichols are destroying King's legacy. Sharpton made clear that King's dream is the best way to combat divisiveness, police brutality, and racism. To look into the content of a man's character, not at his skin color. The police officers who brutally murdered Tyre Nichols are individual men responsible for their actions; they represented a total breakdown of law and order and a shocking brutality.  They did not behave like human beings or treat Tyre Nichols like a human being. "You thought you threw Dr. King's dream in the pit," Sharpton said to the killers, because they are black. But race was not the point. "What happened to the dream?" he asked. Restore it. "God will do for us what we do for ourselves," said Al Sharpton, indicating that we all have a mountain to climb, and must keep climbing it until we're free of police brutality.

It is noteworthy that Sharpton did not invoke that prophet of victimhood, Ibram X. Kendi or anyone else remotely connected with the so-called anti-racism movement. He pointed us back to Dr. King, where we should have remained all along.


Monday, January 16, 2023

I, too, Have a Dream

I have a dream that schools, universities, businesses, and (especially) educated persons, inhabitants of large cities and small towns, in short, everyone, will return to the insights of Dr. Martin Luther King. 

We will all understand that the defining virtue or vice of people is the content of their characters. We will abandon affinity groups, victimology, resentment, grievance. We will recognize the political virtues of the Englightenment and of Western democracies. We will abandon the fantasy that "whiteness" exists or that it is an ideology of oppression. We will stop reading children propaganda like Antiracist Baby and Not My Idea. We'll read children a bunch of authors, and if we have a problem with what appears to be a prejudicial idea, we'll mention that to the kid as we read. If I ever have a grandchild, I'll read If I Ran the Zoo and Hitty, Her First Hundred Years, and say kid, do you know what a stereotype is? I'll read the kid Just So Stories and if somebody says Kipling was a racist or a colonizer I'll say yeah, sure, and how about Gunga Din--and how about reading it as Kipling "Doing The Work?" Which he was. Jump to the near present and think of Tony Hoagland, hounded when he was practically on his deathbed by Claudia Rankine, who insisted his lovely poem, "The Change" was racist. Which it isn't--he wrote her a very nice reply, but she would not admit that he was, again, "Doing the Work" and probably felt jealous because he's the wittier poet. 

We will practice gratitude. We're grateful for the gorgeous design of a Japanese kimono, a Bavarian dirndl, a sarape. And we'll wear those things because we love them, no matter what color our skin and no matter what our ethnicity. 

We'll say what we think, too. Just like I'm doing here. We won't say to friends or neighbors or co-workers, "I don't want to talk about race." We'll talk. Openly. Say just what we think of critical race theory and the 1619 Project. Oh, for a day when we all say what we think.

Books to be abandoned:

Anything by Ibram X Kendi

Anything by Robin Di Angelo

Anything by Rennie Edo-Lodge

Anything by Ijeoma Oluo


Books to be taken up and read with delight:

Woke Racism, by John McWhorter

Anything by Wilfred Reilly

Anything by Thomas Sowell

Anything by Douglas Murray, but especially The Madness of Crowds

 

 Podcasts to enjoy: 

Peter Boghossian: All things Reconsidered and "Street Epistemology" videos

Glenn Loury and John McWhorter: The Glenn Show

Heather Cox Richardson (plus, of course, her substack)


I have a dream!

Thursday, January 12, 2023

Enhertu 101: Ten Tips

(1) They don't charge extra for the nausea and vomiting. For what you--or your health insurance--is already shelling out, they shouldn't. The worst of it often starts a week after the first treatment.

(2) Anti-nausea meds plug you up. As in backed up to the esophagus. Instead: Gerolsteiner mineral water, the bubbliest kind. Ginger-root tea. Candied ginger root. And for some reason, the stinkiest French cheese you can find--the kind supposedly good for gut bacteria. I haven't tried Kimchee for nausea, but that'll be next.

(3) Expect napping to become a serious hobby. I'd get out of bed, make myself walk to the end of my room and back, and feel as though I'd spent an hour at the gym. Naptime!

(4) You'll probably lose weight. With regular chemo you're nauseous but gain weight. With Enhertu, you're nauseous and lose weight. Makes more sense.

(5) Reading is fantastic therapy. Stay away from the screen. I've consumed Great Expectations, most of a short story collection and some of Crime and Punishment since my first infusion. 

(4) You might feel like King Kong after your first infusion, but that's just the cortisone. When it wears off after a day or two, you'll look as though you'd drunk five Schnapps--grogblossom cheeks. You'll feel like a deflated ballon.

(5) Actual alcohol will probably increase nausea, at least for the first week or more. Yesterday a glass of white wine went fine with dinner, which was melted cheese into which I dipped baguette.

(6) I wouldn't be at all surprised if you're constantly wondering whether you'll ever feel normal again. Wondering this has become my second hobby.

(7) Try having a spicy restaurant meal delivered.

(8) If you start coughing, don't panic. Have a pulse oxymeter nearby. When it says your lung capacity is anything over 95, you probably don't have interstitial lung disease.

(9) If the oxymeter dips--even to 80--call your doctor right away.

(10) Join a Facebook group of women taking Enhertu! I find reading everyone else's experiences, tips and favorite foods helpful.


Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Book Review: Douglas Murray's The War on the West

 
 
This essay originally was first published in Counterweight on Dec 3, 2022. Founded by Helen Pluckrose, whose Cynical Theories is an excellent explanation of flawed intellectual developments in activist scholarship, the magazine is edited and created by Harriet Terrill, Isobel Marston, David Bernstein, Jodi Shaw, Lori K Oham, Laura Walker-Beaven and Jennifer Richmond.
 
How the West Should Win: Douglas Murray’s The War on the West

By Melissa Knox

 If compelled to choose only one book about the impact of the 2020 racial reckoning on democracy and Western culture, take Douglas Murray’s The War on the West. It demolishes myths, from the presumed racism of George Floyd’s death to the notion that there’s such a thing as “whiteness,” while showing how these myths throw Western democracies into turmoil. Murray begins with our confusions: "People began to talk of “equality,” but they did not seem to care about equal rights. They talked of “anti-racism,” but they sounded deeply racist. They spoke of “justice,” but they seemed to mean “revenge.”"

Diagnosing anti-racism ideology as a form of religion—I might have said mass hysteria—Murray builds on the insights of John McWhorter, who in Woke Racism explores why “the Elect”—believers in this new religion—get angry at those daring to question current notions of whiteness or white supremacy, the meaning of the murder of George Floyd, or any other current ideology about so-called anti-racism.

Murray argues, “this new religion constitutes something to do,” (his Italics) and “allows them to imagine a perfectible upland toward which they and everyone else on earth might strive [ . . .] imbues them with confidence [ . . .] dividing the society they are in between saints and sinners” (156). And then the kicker: “Perhaps most crucially, it also allows them to war on what were their own origins. The appeal of this conflict should not be underestimated [. . .] the instinct to destroy, to burn, and to spit on everything that has produced you,” and of course the “one final appeal. The opportunity to treat other people badly beneath the guise of doing good” (156). As I write, the “Just Stop Oil” protesters have been throwing soup, cake, and potato mush at priceless paintings and blocking traffic on major throughways, preventing scientists working on climate change from getting to work, exemplifying the phenomenon Murray speaks of.

This religious impulse supplies a feeling of superiority, offering certainty where none exists. Those who accept as gospel Ibram X. Kendi’s formula in his 2019 book, How to be an Antiracist—namely, “Every policy in every institution in every community in every nation is producing or sustaining either racial inequity or equity” (18) —have an illusionary answer to a tremendously complex question. Asserting that anyone of color is a victim and all representatives of the West are oppressors who should “do the work” and “check” their “privilege” is unfortunately more than a ritualistic, self-demeaning distraction from the real ills of modern slavery, climate change, immigration, failing democracies and totalitarian regimes.

The self-destructiveness that fuels emotional self-flagellation, self-censorship and brooding guilt facilitates the destruction of forms of government, art and culture which preserve democracy, free speech and tolerant ways of life. The state of California is currently considering a mandatory “Ethnic Studies” curriculum for high school students that frames American history as “an ongoing colonial project, in which white ethnic groups subjugate non-white ethnic groups,” marked by inherently unjust legal, economic and educational systems that should be overthrown. Of course, this approach ignores a complex story involving the virtues as well as the errors of liberal democracy, and shows no compassion for difficult decisions made in difficult times.

In the arts, Murray reports (213-219) on the censorship of Rex Whistler’s 1928 mural at the Tate museum, because a few of its strange, satiric non-European figures were deemed evidence of imperialism by an Instagram account called “The White Pube” (216). Similarly, in the United States, fantastic figures drawn by the children’s writer Dr. Seuss have been condemned as racist, partly because they are presumed to be based on African-American vaudeville, partly because they are perceived as stereotypes of black and Chinese people. But everything Dr. Seuss draws is a caricature—the drawings of white people are just as absurd. The campaign of destructiveness, driven by masochistic guilt, is ongoing.

Murray makes a point that ought to be obvious, but is seemingly not to the proponents of critical social justice:  “what cannot be disputed [ . . .] is the simple matter of footfall: a footfall that is entirely one directional [. . .] there is [. . .] no serious movement of peoples in the world struggling to get into modern China [. . .] The migrant ships across the Mediterranean go only in one direction—north.” (263) Because the West offers the best deal: “It is,” Murray reminds us, “America that has twice elected a black president—the son of a father from Kenya. It is America whose current vice president is the daughter of immigrants from India and Jamaica. It is the cabinet of the United Kingdom that includes the children of immigrants from Kenya, Tanzania, Pakistan, Uganda, and Ghana and an immigrant who was born in India.” Finishing off this peroration, Murray adds, “The cabinets of countries across Africa and Asia do not reciprocate this diversity, but it is no matter. The West is happy to accept the benefits this brings, even if others are not.” (264).

The new, race-based, Marx-and-postmodern influenced ideology attacks Western values by retroactively cancelling the numerous white men who were responsible for building these values. Thomas Jefferson’s writings, for example, have been seized as evidence of an unforgivable racism that taints the entire system of democracy. None dispute that Jefferson owned slaves, raped or exerted arm-twisting power over Sally Hemings, the enslaved mother of several of his children, and to top it off, expressed opinions most people would now consider racist. In private letters Jefferson aired thoughts seemingly at odds with his political message in the Declaration of Independence, a document built on the best notions of fairness the eighteenth century could summon. (But reasoning is so often dialectical; any thinker considers all manner of opposing ideas in order to move forward to a new one). Lincoln is condemned for similar reasons, George Washington as well. Ibram X. Kendi dismisses the philosopher David Hume for supposedly declaring “all races unequal.” (33).  Kendi presents this notion as if it were Hume’s central ideology instead of, Murray mentions, “a single footnote in [Hume’s] essay, “Of National Characters” [. . .] notorious among Hume scholars,” (168).

There is one great exception to this dismissal of white men to which Murray draws attention. Widespread condemnation of the blatantly racist Karl Marx doesn’t exist. Ethnically Jewish, Marx famously rejected religion and, as letters quoted by Murray reveal, remained virulently anti-Semitic and anti-black all his life. Murray quotes from one of Marx’s letters to Engels, written in July 1862:

The Jewish nigger Lassalle, who, I’m happy to say, is leaving at the end of this week has happily lost another 5,000 talers in an ill-judged speculation . . . it is now quite plain to me—as the shape of his head and the way his hair grows also testify—that he is descended from the negroes who accompanied Moses’ flight from Egypt (unless his mother or paternal grandmother interbred with a nigger). Now, this blend of Jewishness and Germanness, on the one hand, and basic negroid stock, on the other, must inevitably give rise to a peculiar product. The fellow’s importunity is also nigger-like. (177 Murray; Marx and Engels Collected Works, p. 388).

This sounds like Madison Grant on steroids, but while most people condemn Grant’s racism and the devastating ways in which it inspired Hitler and the Nazis, the prevailing view of Marx is forgiving: he was just a man of his time. Not to be held to the same impossible “presentist” standard as other political and cultural giants. In 1847, Murray notes, Marx wrote in a letter, “Slavery is an economic category like any other,” (179) and then considered what he called “the good side of slavery,” namely, “Without slavery, North America would be transformed into a patriarchal country . . . Cause slavery to disappear and you will have wiped America off the map of nations.” (179) Marx was, Murray observes, “far worse than any of the people who largely leftist campaigners have spent recent years lambasting” (179).

Even so, Marxian insights certainly underscore the so-called anti-racism of Ibram X. Kendi and followers. Kendi makes this point himself in How to be an Antiracist. A chapter entitled “Class” begins with two definitions: a “class racist” is one “who is racializing the classes, supporting policies of racial capitalism against those race-classes, and justifying them by racist ideas about those race-classes.” Meanwhile, an “antiracist anticapitalist” is one “who is opposing racial capitalism” (151). With conspicuous lack of proof, he insists: “Antiracist policies cannot eliminate class racism without anti-capitalist policies”. Anticapitalism “cannot eliminate class racism without antiracism” (Kendi, 159). Then he claims: “To love capitalism is to end up loving racism. To love racism is to end up loving capitalism.” (163) Counteracting these baseless assertions, Coleman Hughes lists “several historical examples in which capitalism inspired anti-racism.” Kendi offers no more proof for his outlandish claims than did Madison Grant, who claimed “race is everything” in his 1916 bestseller, The Passing of the Great Race, and whose sweeping rhetoric led to terrible social policies, such as forced sterilization, which disproportionately affected  women of color see here, here and here.

Murray could and should have said even more about the popular misreading of George Floyd’s tragic death—inciting, as it did, many of the subsequent “anti-racist” readings of the intentions and character of Thomas Jefferson, George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, David Hume, and so many others. Like many people, I initially understood Floyd’s death to be a lynching in broad daylight, a racist cop taking sadistic pleasure in killing a black man. Further reflection—as well as close study of videos of Floyd’s murder, of reportage on the trial of Derek Chauvin, and of the disturbing footage of the deaths of Tony Timpa and others, have led me to understand how wrong I was.

Keith Ellison, the Minnesota Attorney General, who might have gained in political popularity by asserting racism as a motive in the Derek Chauvin trial, said there was “no evidence” that Floyd’s murder was racially motivated. In 2016, Tony Timpa, a white man who had called police for help, died in the same horrible way, gasping out his last in the same position as George Floyd, but his death was caught by body cams only. His mother reports finding him in the morgue with his mouth filled with grass and dirt, so desperate had he been to breathe. Timpa’s killers were never convicted; his mother was lied to about his death by the Dallas Police Department and the District Attorney’s Office.

The lesson to be learned from the murder of George Floyd was not that it was racist but that it was brutal, cruel, criminal—and that it was seen by onlookers desperate, but powerless, to stop it. The murder was the exploitation of power by a rogue cop allegedly disgruntled with his life and his marriage, and ready to take out his rage on the first unlucky victim. John McWhorter made the point in a June 10, 2022 NY Times essay that the combination of the pandemic and this very public murder added fat to a fire; McWhorter didn’t take the abhorrent murder to be an issue of race.

II

In four chapters, “Race,” “History,” “Reparations” and “Gratitude,” and three “interludes” functioning as examples or focusing on specific issues, like reparations, namely “China,” “Religion,” and “Gratitude,” Murray establishes the existence of a cultural war on the west, offering facts, statistics, and biting sarcasm to target widely held, erroneous beliefs and unfortunate human predilections. Dissecting the "slow but steady assault" (122) on Winston Churchill as a "coward" who sat home while others died in battle, Murray writes: "You must wonder how hostile somebody must be to ask why a prime minister who, as a young man, saw action on four continents and volunteered to fight in World War I, should, in his sixties, have fought on the front line of the conflict like some medieval warlord." (123). This hostility strikes the keynote of much anti-racist propaganda, which Murray is well-prepared to thwart.

His “Race” chapter begins by noting that Westerners tend to be white—white means “having ancestors from Europe.” Remarking that the majority of people in Africa have been black, he writes, “If [ . . .] you wished to level an assault on everything to do with Africa, you might at some point target people for being black.” (15) Which, like all targeting of persons for immutable characteristics like skin color, is inhumane. The commonsense approach of Dr. Martin Luther King, namely to treat everyone as an individual, was lost in the rise of the academically obscure ideology of Critical Race Theory, whose followers “saw nearly all progress in American race relations as an illusion.” (17) Evidence was out the window; lived experience was all, and Smith professor Peggy McIntosh’s list of ungrounded assertions about white privilege in her 1989 article replaced thinking with ideology, becoming the basis for Robin di Angelo’s bestseller, White Fragility.

The “invisible backpack,” the notion that being white confers privilege automatically, regardless of social or economic status, appears to have morphed in Robin DiAngelo’s work into the more radical idea that anti-blackness “is foundational to our very identities as white people.” (Murray 23, note 12). DiAngelo told Slate journalist Lauren Michele Jackson that “White fragility” is “the current moment’s ‘white privilege’ by Peggy McIntosh.” Murray punctures DiAngelo’s claims with: “To say ‘all Chinese people think this” or ‘all black people behave like that’ had been thought to be rude as well as ignorant. But Robin Di Angelo positively reveled in the naughtiness of doing it and getting away with doing it because she was doing it against white people.” (23) He characterizes her as “The Miss Whiplash of antiracism” (267) and yes, she’s sadistic, but he might have drawn the more obvious parallel to Jonathan Edwards, the 18th century author of the notorious sermon, “Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God,” in which Edwards terrorized parishioners by informing them that their God “abhors” them and felt “dreadfully provoked” and inclined to cast them into the fire as you would a spider “or some loathsome insect.”

This same sense of doomed, inescapable guilt afflicted many US citizens, Murray writes, offering results of a 2019 poll in which twenty-two percent of people identifying as “very liberal” thought that the police shot at least ten thousand unarmed black men in a year; “fully 40 percent thought the figure was between one thousand and ten thousand. The actual figure was somewhere around ten.” (27, note 20) Yet “whiteness” became a disease; a psychoanalyst named Donald Moss described it as a “parasitic-like condition.” (64)

What follows Murray’s race chapter is the first of three reflective “interludes” offered by way of illustrating educational and policy lapses as well as identifying hidden and sometimes mysterious psychological and philosophic influences derailing Western culture. The “China '' interlude nails the “reflexive anti-Westernism” (66) evident in the assertion that all China’s problems are the fault of the West. The notion that the opium wars caused more damage than Chairman Mao’s killing of “perhaps seventy million of his own people” and the delusional emphasis on “racism” in the U.S. while more than a million men, women and children of the Uighur Muslim minority are imprisoned, tortured, and raped in camps across the Xianjiang region (67) is obscene. But the Chinese have leverage because the West has given it to them: “The elites of America and Europe thought that bringing China into international organizations would push democratic norms into the country.” (69). Instead, China rose in global trade while America fell; the Chinese could therefore buy Western tolerance of their worst policies.

Murray’s “History” chapter investigates the rash of unscholarly attempts to cast the foundation of the United States as racist; an egregious example is Nikole Hannah-Jones’s 1619 Project, which asserts that the “arrival of the first slaves on the continent should be regarded as the true founding date of America,” (Murray, 86) America’s original sin. Published in The New York Times, this propaganda was criticized by a number of major historians and an anthropologist. Murray offers the critiques of Sean Wilentz, James McPherson, Gordon Wood, Victoria Bynum and James Oakes, but I wish he’d included Peter W. Wood’s 1620, because Wood, an anthropologist, is particularly sensitive to the meaning of customs and beliefs.

It is Peter W. Wood who answers Hannah-Jones’s question of why her father, the son of Mississippi sharecroppers, flew an American flag in their yard (Wood, 70). Wood perceives the father’s appreciation of American ideals even when he could not enjoy them personally. Hannah-Jones’s father knew “all men are created equal” was an aspiration, that it could be fulfilled, that every generation would improve chances for immigrants, persons of color, and women. And it is Peter W. Wood who dares to criticize the hypocrisy of the Princeton historian Nell Irvin Painter, who saw the lies in the 1619 Project but refused to condemn it because, she said, “I would be signing on to the white guy’s attack of something that has given a lot of black journalists and writers a chance to speak up in a really big way . . .  I support the 1619 Project as a kind of cultural event.” (Wood, 217). Wood rightly points out that this is condescending, if not racist, by setting low standards for black journalists. (Wood, 217).

In his Interlude, “Slavery,” Murray is on well-trodden ground; here his remarks largely repeat those of Thomas Sowell in Intellectuals and Race, but Murray adds an analysis of how the facts of slavery continue to be twisted. The pattern is to “zoom in on Western behavior, remove it from the context of the time, set aside any non-Western parallels, and then exaggerate what the West actually did” (113). Offering the well-known history of worldwide slavery, he remarks: “the history of slavery is far more universally morally compromising than the current discussion is remotely willing to concede” (114). He spots the absurdities of Kendi’s claims on the topic, identifying them as fundamentally anti-Western. Although “curtly” acknowledging that American and European nations were hardly unique in engaging in slavery, Kendi insists, “At the dawn of the modern world, the Portuguese began to exclusively trade African bodies” (116, note 15).

For Kendi, Murray writes, “the question of diversity is of foremost importance. A form of slavery that involves the enslaving of one racial group is the worst of slavery’s forms. While a form of slavery that has diversity at its heart is somehow better slavery.” (116) That this point of view is deemed rational stirs Murray’s—and my—incredulity: Kendi’s definition is not just a “strange standard” but a “moral retrofit.” (116). His hyperbolic claims about slavery, empire and colonialism obviate the real history, namely that slavery and how it ended was “what the West got right,” (118) considering the length of time the practice continued in the Ottoman empire and in Brazil, and the fact that in Saudia Arabia and the Middle East, Africa and, not long ago, even in New Zealand, the practice continues (118).

Of the final sections, “Gratitude” is perhaps the most prescient. Murray draws our attention to a mysterious scene in Dostoyevsky’s The Brothers Karamazov. One of the brothers, Ivan, begins to lose his mind, and the reader doesn’t know why, until we learn he’s routinely visited by the sadly debonair devil, a former landowner with serfs, who is dressed “like a Russian gentleman, using French phrases.” The devil may be inside Ivan’s head or he may really be there: we don’t know. What he says, however, is extraordinary. His “best emotions” like “gratitude” are “forbidden [. . .] on account of my social position.” (Murray, 204)

The question of why the devil can’t feel gratitude opens up an understanding of the willful destruction of Western values. Noting how easy it is to destroy what takes time to create—human beings, churches, cathedrals, statues—Murray notes these “can be burned to the ground [. . .] brought down in an afternoon.” (204). Wending his way through German philosophers, Murray interprets Dostoevsky’s devil as the embodiment of a fatal resentment currently igniting the West: “blaming someone else for having something you believe you deserved more” (205). Invoking Nietzsche’s reasoning in The Geneology of Morals and the concept of resentment, or “Ressentiment”, Murray diagnoses the current need to “sanctify revenge with the term justice—as though justice were fundamentally simply a further development of the feeling of having been wronged.” (205). This vengeful feeling animates the victim/oppressor narrative popularized by Ta-Nahisi Coates (with his demand for reparations), Nikole Hannah-Jones (with her fantasy that America’s purpose is slavery), Robin diAngelo (with her blather about “white fragility”) and Ibram X. Kendi.

But now, to return to George Floyd, the unlikely symbol of all this resentment: “Nobody knows what was going through the mind of George Floyd during the last terrible minutes of his life. But it might have surprised him to learn that his death could lead to a purge of historic harpsichords at one of London’s premier music conservatories.” (238) Yes, at the Royal Academy of Music, steps taken in response to Floyd’s death included “making our curriculum more diverse” by looking at their music collection “through a decolonization lens.” Since George Frideric Handel—composer of the breathtakingly beautiful The Messiah—also invested in a company that owned slaves, out went some of his harpsichords.

The tragic misinterpretation of George Floyd’s murder will emerge, eventually. He’s become a Rorschach test. I’ve seen neo-conservative sites dedicated to pointing out what they consider his “resistance” to the police. Nonsense. George Floyd looks like Pooh Bear Got Drunk. He barely understands what the police are saying. He’s scared, confused, and anything but dangerous. He’s childlike, bumbling, too incapacitated to understand the demand to get in the car. He was unlucky in the extreme when Derek Chauvin—known for brutality on the force already—crossed his path. But to see George Floyd with his drug use and his phony twenty-dollar bill as a hero, is sad. He might instead be seen as an American underdog catalyzing a reform of police brutality. If only his death could lead to this reform, instead of to the assault on the West.

For Murray, the restoration of gratitude could stop this assault. Gratitude could help us understand how concepts like “cultural appropriation” and “de-colonization” are born, not out of reality, but out of despair and rebellion in the wake of racial unrest. Murray speaks at the end of “forgotten humility, ” meaning the failure or refusal to find common ground in political, artistic, and cultural areas. Recognizing imitation as appreciation, or creativity or as the desire to understand from the point of common humanity would be one start. Our common longing for ideals that unite us—not the immutable and accidental differences of skin color and ethnicity—can lead the way back to social cohesion.

Melissa Knox is a writer living in Germany; she teaches at The University of Duisburg-Essen.


 

Thursday, December 15, 2022

Watching the Netflix Harry and Meghan

Tyler Perry's right. They're smart, talented, classy people who have been through more than their fair share of troubles.

Douglas Murray, Megyn Kelly (who called them "Kardashian 2") and Piers Morgan--whom I tend to agree with on other issues--are so wrong I want to knock their heads together. The indignation in Kelly's biting comments, the superciliousness in Murray's, who thinks Markle is lying in the Oprah interview, the ranting jealousy emanating from Piers Morgan, are dismaying. Of course, Murray's real target is cancel culture; a British actor's career was destroyed when he said he didn't think Britain was that racist.

Amazing what a Rorschach test this series is. The complaints usually center around the notion of privilege--as if being rich and famous protected a person or was even enjoyable. I watch these lives and think "how golden my anonymity!" 

I admire the work Harry and Meghan did for the royal family and the work they're doing on their own. The two of them are morale-boosters with tremendous energy. They are visionaries: they want to make the world a better place and they go to town making their dreams come true.

The part of the story I hadn't known--the part Murray, Kelly and Morgan don't buy, but I do--is the palace intrigue. Meghan and Harry got too popular and had to be taken down a peg. Somebody did this. Leaving "the firm," I take it, is a bit like leaving the mafia. Takes a lot of work to survive, what with the helicoptors overhead, the men in cars or boats surrounding you, the barrage of hate tweets.

But I'll let the triumverate who dislike her present their argument, which is, essentially, "you don't like the heat? Stay out of the kitchen." In other words, all royals put up with egregiously intrusive lying publicity, so just suck it up.

Yes, well. There's a grain of truth in there somewhere. But Harry pointed out that the race card many papers were playing (the photo of a couple with a monkey in a suit labeled as Prince Archie coming home, for instance) made it all worse. 

What these two extraordinarily talented, hard-working beautiful people missed--if they did miss something--was the absurdity of the flat-out lies, the hate mail, and the insulting photographs. There is something absurd about media attention. I'd hate it too if it was in my face all the time but unlike people in their twenties, thirties, I find more things amusing. The piles of money made by invented stories, the things people believe--it is all absurd. There's something to laugh at there. Even Princess Michael's blackamoor brooch. Out-of-touch, tacky, just awful--but not something to be resolved with laughter? Isn't it more "can you believe people felt that way? Can you believe she's wearing that? Can you believe she doesn't get how ghastly that thing is?"

Can you believe somebody didn't take Princess Michael aside (the way you would someone who's tucked her skirt into her underpants) and removed the brooch with a few kind words and an "I'll explain more later?"

The death threats, however, tipped the balance. They are not absurd, and from those I believe the palace could have done more to protect Meghan. 

Fame eats people alive. The urge to escape wars with the urge to set the record straight, the urge to tell the true story. I think that's what these two young people have done.

What those who love Harry and Meghan and those who love to hate them seem to agree upon remains that they're really in love. They really are. I can see that, and their marriage reminds me of my own. There really is love like that. It really is great. 

But if what you see up on that screen contrasts with what you're telling yourself you have, or understanding you don't have--I can see how you might hate them. Romantic bliss is something real, but rare. It's everything, and of course it's to be envied. 

Tuesday, December 6, 2022

Health Providers, Politics, and Cancer Patients in Germany

If you're imagining--as I was until about five minutes ago--that you'd never be turned down for an essential medical treatment in generous Germany, you're in for a shock.

My oncologist is apoplectic--as am I. The treatment is, natürlich, eye-poppingly costly (around 9,000 euro per infusion) but there are women right here in Germany getting their fortieth infusions. Every three weeks.

Without it, I'm on a standard chemotherapy causing un-appetizing side effects, most of which I won't list, since they'd turn your stomach, but but one of them is exhaustion and another is a sort of miracle ageing effect; I have a gray buzz cut, sallow skin, and saggy eyes giving me the expression of a serial killer or a grumpy grandma, depending on the light and my degree of fatigue. 

The miracle drug--never mind the name; they all have names sounding like Disney princesses or space aliens--usually doesn't cause side effects and works much, much better than the standard stuff. 

Tecnically--ah, that word fueling bureaucrats!--what I'm asking for is listed as "off-label" for my condition, but the insurance company and the pharmaceutical companies and the European Medical Agency and the lawyers and just everybody knows the stuff will be reclassified as standard within three months. 

So the insurance company wants to avoid the three months and then have to pay for the next zillion months? Because yes, folks, that's what the stuff is likely to give me. 

That kind of time is a big change. Oncologists are a like drug dealers: they sidle up, show you the box of the very latest cancer pills, and whisper, "This'll give ya another five years." And it does! It really does!

But then you have your routine CT scan after five and a half years, and your oncologist thinks it'll all be smooth sailing, but a new metastasis appears and then--"here's this other great new stuff that'll give ya another five years!" At the end of which it has continued to work for many women. If not, the new stuff in the pipeline often does.

If the insurance company will pay. And they can. Most clients aren't in the middle of expensive illnesses. There's only a few of us, and hey, I work and I pay taxes and I provided the German state with three kids who are solid citizens, terrific students and working hard toward their university degrees. 

So the company can afford me. I'm worth it. Pony up the dough! 

 

P.S. Have been trying to reply to the last comment on resources for U.S. women needing Enhertu and there's some glitch. My reply: There's no compassionate use program planned for Germany. (Or, I believe, Europe).

Sunday, November 27, 2022

Glass Noodle Goody: A Fast and Easy Dish

I came home wanting a fast meal--and what's faster than glass noodles (about five minutes in boiling water) combined with broccoli florets?

But they need flavor. That's easy, too. All you need (for a single serving) is a 250 ml pack of coconut milk (about 9 oz) and a spoonful of Tom Yum hot and sour paste, or red curry paste, or, if you're short on all, some grated ginger and crushed garlic, along with cumin and turmeric. I always put in garlic and ginger anyway.

Instructions: 

Wash broccoli, cut off florets, rinse and drain in collander. Set aside.

Bring a large pot of water to boil; add a teaspoon of salt.

In a smaller pot, heat a little peanut oil and add grated ginger (a piece about half the size of your thumb) and crushed garlic (to taste, but I always think lots is good).

When the garlic and ginger start to smell good, add the coconut milk and at least a tablespoon of the Tom Yum paste. Stir and turn down heat.

Add the glass noodles and the broccoli to the water; boil about five minutes. Rinse in cold water (keeps the broccoli green and prevents the noodles from sticking) Pour on the coconut Tom Yum sauce. Consume with a glass of red wine.